27 Best Sex Toys for Couples, According to Testers & Sex Therapists

“A vibrating cock ring is a great choice for partnered sex, since the small vibrator is strategically located to rub against the whole clitoral area while a couple is having penetrative sex,” says Sari Cooper, a certified sex therapist and founder and director of the Center for Love and Sex in New York City. “Penis rings are also helpful to support an erection because they maintain the blood flow in the genital area.” Plus, tons of men get aroused from feeling those vibrations. “I was a huge fan of the vibration,” one Glamour tester says of the Tor 2’s clitoral stimulation. “However, my partner did not enjoy it because it was tight [the diamater is a little over an inch], so I do not recommend it for those who have a thicker partner. If you like clit stimulation as a partner penetrates you, I 100% recommend.”

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 6 vibration settings / Battery: 1.5-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Enjoyable for both partners; can allow stronger erections.
• Cons: Might be too tight.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? Yes
• App compatibility? Yes
• Area of stimulation: Penis, clit

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This beloved suction toy sends waves of pleasure through your clit, mimicking the sensation of oral sex with knee-weakening accuracy. If you have trouble orgasming from internal stimulation alone, it’s guaranteed to take your next bedroom romp to an 11. (Trust us: We tried it and called it “almost too good” in our Satisfyer Pro 2 review.) We recommend you or your partner hold it over your clitoris during oral sex or penetration; combined with G-spot stimulation, it’ll feel heavenly. “I have tried a lot of sex toys, alone and with a partner, and they all help on some level, but the Satisfyer is in a league of its own,” one Glamour tester raves. “I am not exaggerating when I say my body did things I did not know it could do with this toy. Like, I always thought squirting was just a thing I would see in porn, but it turns out my body can do that!”

• Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 11 vibration settings / Battery: 1.5-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Quiet design, pinpointed stimulation, tons of intensity levels
• Cons: Focuses only on the clit.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit

Leave it to Lelo to design the best waterproof vibrator for couples. Whether you use it in the same room or a world apart, the Ida Wave is perfect for anyone with a vulva. According to Weiss’s Ida Wave review, the orgasms are plentiful and then some: “They kept on coming. Each orgasm was progressively more intense and felt like it was coming from a slightly different place. And after each one I'd think I was done for good, and then suddenly I'd feel the vibration in a slightly different place and get extremely turned on all over again… Within around a half hour, I'd reached my previous record of eight orgasms… but I still had another half hour until dinner… As it turned out, there were seven more in me.” There really isn’t more to say on the matter, is there?

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Dual stimulation, orgasm-inducing
• Cons: A bit bulky
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? Yes
• App compatibility? Yes
• Area of stimulation: Clit, G-spot

Cock rings are a fantastic addition to partnered play. But the only downside is that some can be really pricey—this is particularly an issue for people who have yet to experience the joy of cock rings and don’t want to spend a lot. “This vibrating cock ring doesn’t have the price tag that some others, but it’s just as delicious,” says Chatel. “It also has the iconic rabbit ears for more direct clitoral stimulation.” Although some might find the need to keep a supply of AAA batteries a hassle, considering how great this cock ring feels, it’s a small price—literally and figuratively!—to pay.

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 7 vibration settings / Battery: 1 x AAA battery
• Pros: Stretchy; stimulates both partners.
• Cons: Requires batteries.
• Waterproof? No
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit, penis

Cooper recommends the We-Vibe Sync for pretty much any couple. It has a head that massages the clitoris and a smaller end that acts as a G-spot vibrator—as well as a partner’s penis during sex. It’s also waterproof (i.e., ideal for shower sex), has a remote for mess-free adjustments and an app that allows users to control the rhythm of the vibrator from anywhere in the world, making it perfect for long-distance couples. “I’ve been in a lot of long-distance relationships,” says Amanda Chatel, a sex writer and Glamour tester, and the Sync 2 has been a favorite through them. “It gets the job done and does provide some intimacy in a strange, faraway way.”

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: App-controlled, waterproof, relatively quiet; wearable design
• Cons: Can be tough to keep in place.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? Yes
• App compatibility? Yes
• Area of stimulation: Penis, clit, G-spot

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Used alone or with a partner, this hands-free vibrator fits in the vulva and rests between the labia. It comes highly recommended by Gottfried: “It stimulates the clitoris and allows for penetration simultaneously, and even has a discreet charging case.” (Pro tip: Use crotchless panties to keep it in place with zero effort.) “It’s a very unobtrusive toy that tucks between your labia and sits on your clitoris,” explains sex educator and Glamour sex writer Suzannah Weiss, who often uses it during partnered sex. “It’s surprisingly powerful for its small size and also works great for solo masturbation. It does occasionally move around, so it may require you to use your hands a bit.”

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 3 vibration settings / Battery: 1-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Waterproof build, wearable design; great for couples
• Cons: Limited vibration options; can be tough to keep in place.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit

This handy, ever-popular wand vibrator is great for every stage of sex, from foreplay to the big O. Use it for a sensual massage, explore its whopping 28 settings for as long as you can handle it, or position it between your bodies to climax together. Another perk? It’ll only set you back about $20 with frequent sales and coupons. And according to one Glamour tester, it far outperforms its price. “It’s nice that the head is bendy so it can hit angles,” she shares, and it’s just the right size to share between two people scissoring. Plus, it has “good levels of intensity” and is easy to clean, charge, and store. The only drawback? It’s easy to accidentally press a button and change the vibration settings, which can be a “buzzkill,” per the tester.

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 28 vibration settings / Battery: 1.5-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Waterproof design, tons of vibration options; budget-friendly
• Cons: Loud; may break down relatively quickly.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit

“The Lush 3 is a powerful wearable vibrator made from body-safe silicone that’s meant to be worn vaginally for rumbly internal vibrations; the largest bulb slips inside the vagina, while the curved flexible tail wraps toward the clit for a more comfortable and secure fit,” explains Dainis Graveris, certified sex educator and relationship expert at SexualAlpha. “Despite the powerful vibrating motor, it’s discreet enough that you can wear it while you’re out in public and give your short-range or long-distance partner control over your pleasure.” Any partner can use an app to control the vibration, whether they’re in the same room or they’re countless miles away. It’s also fun out in the world, Weiss says: “If you’re feeling adventurous, you can wear it out and about and enjoy the quiet and unpredictable vibrations in public settings.”

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: Customizable vibration settings / Battery: 4.5-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: App-controlled; wearable design, tons of vibration modes
• Cons: Might break down quickly.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? Yes
• App compatibility? Yes
• Area of stimulation: Penis, clit, G-spot

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This ergonomic pick from Lelo “doesn’t take up much room during sex,” explains Aliyah Moore, PhD, a certified sex therapist with SexualAlpha, who appreciates the gadget’s “comfortable curve and handle” that make it easy to use on the clitoris and vulva. “I highly recommend it for clit play during partnered sex. There’s also a wide range of power settings, from soft to very strong.” Use it as an external vibe during oral sex or penetration, then slip in the curved tip for targeted G-spot stimulation if you need help reaching the big O.

• Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 6 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Waterproof design, unobtrusive shape; for internal or external use
• Cons: Buttons are easy to accidentally push during sex.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit, G-spot

Maude’s hero vibrator exists in a realm of its own: It’s a focused, fluttering toy that works wonders on clits, nipples, and any other sensitive areas. It’s designed with beginners in mind, complete with simple controls and only three speeds. But there’s no shortage of ways to use it: Have your partner flutter it over your clitoris or nipples, use it for extra stimulation during oral sex, hold it over erogenous zones during penetrative sex, you name it. “This thing flutters more intensely than you’d expect,” a Glamour tester says. “The tip is wonderfully buzzy and feels like a superpowered finger.”

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 3 vibration settings / Battery: 2.5-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Strong motor, easy controls, versatile design
• Cons: Not for internal use; limited vibration modes
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit

This vibrating male masturbator “makes a great addition to penetrative play, blowjobs, and handjobs,” explains Cassandra Corrado, a sex educator who hosts sexuality-focused retreats. Its magic lies in those two textured wings, which act like a vibrating hand or throat; they expand to accommodate nearly any penis size, so you or your partner probably won’t be left out of the fun.

• Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 12 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Waterproof, ideal for penises; ergonomic handle, 2-year warranty
• Cons: Might not be strong enough.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Penis

If it’s your first time experimenting with a toy during partnered play, start here. “The classic Magic Wand is not only my own favorite vibrator, [but] it has also been the best-selling vibrator for over 50 years,” says Nan Wise, PhD, a certified sex therapist and author of the book Why Good Sex Matters. This bestseller actually gets the job done, adding pleasure with a bendable neck and an extra-soft head that’s great for sharing with a partner, whether it’s focused on sore muscles or any erogenous zone you please. (Add full-body massage to your running list of foreplay ideas.) Just a word of warning: This thing is loud.

• Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 8 vibration settings / Battery: 3-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Extra powerful vibrations, flexible neck, rechargeable battery
• Cons: Loud, relatively heavy at 1.5 lbs., not waterproof
• Waterproof? No
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit, vulva

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Logan Levkoff, a relationship and sexuality educator, says you’ll want to get this Dame vibe into your sex drawer, stat. Its super-squishy body hides a powerful (yet surprisingly quiet) motor with five patterns and five speeds, allowing you and your partner to ramp up the intensity as things heat up. Plus, its pointy ridge is tailor-made for clitoral stimulation—and it also feels great on a penis and perineum. “I can use it for massage, foreplay, and sex, both with my partner and alone,” a Glamour toy tester shares. “The focused, beaklike tip offers pinpointed vibrations that aren’t too strong until you ramp things up at the end.”

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: 1-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Inclusive design, three-year warranty; great for foreplay, waterproof
• Cons: More rumbly than buzzy
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit, vulva

This dual-ended vibrator comes highly recommended by Dr. Goldstein, who praises its relatively low price, smooth silicone finish, and waterproofing. “The slimmer girth makes for easy insertion and removal,” he explains. “It also has dual motors, which allow you independent vibrating tips that stimulate exactly where you want them to, and can even be used by both partners at the same time!” No matter what you’re working with, it’s guaranteed to be a hit: Both curved ends are angled to tease the G-spot and prostate perfectly, which leads to better orgasms. Pick the girth and the vibration mode you like best, then start exploring. (Just make sure to wash the toy before sharing if you’ll be using it for vaginal and anal use.)

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 5 vibration settings / Battery: 3-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Dual-ended design, perfect curve for G-spots and prostates
• Cons: Might be too small.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit, G-spot, prostate

This super-bendy vibrator is a great complement to partnered play, because it can be used both internally and externally on everybody and every body. “As much as I like the Bender when I’m solo, I love it even more with my partner,” says Chatel. “It’s not just really powerful, but super flexible, making getting creative during sex extra fun because there’s no body part that this toy can’t stimulate and no place it can’t be used.” Bender reaches full charge in only an hour, is 100% waterproof, and shockingly quiet.

• Material: Body-safe silicone/ Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Super flexible, inclusive of all bodies
• Cons: Some felt is needed a longer shelf life.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit, G-spot, penis

For those moments when you find yourself away from home—whether in a hotel room or a bar bathroom—and in desperate need of a quickie. That’s where this sex toy jewelry comes in: It’s a bullet vibrator that you can wear around your neck or stash in a bag. “Tell me: Is there a sexier conversation starter than wearing a gold or silver vibrator around your neck? Not a chance,” says Emily Morse, a sex therapist, author, and host of the podcast Sex With Emily. In our Crave Vesper review, Weiss shared similar praise: “You never know when you might need some extra clitoral stimulation,” she writes, “and wearing this around your neck means you’re always prepared to get it.”

• Material: Nickel-free metal, body-safe silicone / Modes: 4 vibration settings / Battery: 40-minute rechargeable battery
• Pros: Wearable design, travel-friendly size, quiet motor
• Cons: Semi-obviously a vibrator
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit

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Yes, rabbit vibrators are a bit bulky if you and your partner plan on having penetrative sex. But if you’re not going to be on top of each other—say, if you’re enjoying long-distance Zoom sex or mutual masturbation turns you on—this ridged pick should be right up your alley. “Nora is for those who love rabbit vibes, intense clit stimulation, and G-spot stimulation,” Moore says. Like all Bluetooth-enabled Lovense devices, it can be controlled by anyone in the world via an app and pairs with the brand’s other toys. Moore explains that while the length is great for beginners, the rotating head might be too thick for first-timers or those who prefer less girth.

• Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 7 vibration settings / Battery: 4-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: App connectivity, great battery life; partners with other Lovense toys.
• Cons: Might be too bulky for partnered sex.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? Yes
• App compatibility? Yes
• Area of stimulation: Clit, G-spot

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Mallery calls herself “a big advocate of butt plugs” for couples, no matter if you have a prostate or a vulva. (The internal pressure “makes the vagina feel more cozy,” she says, and it’s especially fun if vibrations are involved.) This pick comes highly recommended by Corrado. “They come in a variety of sizes and are beginner-friendly for the booty-curious folks who want to start using toys,” she says, with the smallest size starting at about the size of an index finger. When you start working your way up, you’ll have an additional six sizes to choose from.

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A
• Pros: Multiple sizes to choose from; weighted for extra sensation
• Cons: Pricey
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? Yes
• App compatibility? Yes
• Area of stimulation: Anus, prostate

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To kick your anal play up a notch, try this dual-ended vibrator. It’s a prostate massager, meaning it’ll hit what’s basically the male version of the G-spot (some can even climax from prostate stimulation alone). It’s also waterproof, remote-controlled, and rechargeable, and it has six vibration patterns and up to two hours of juice. “It’s a great addition to your bedroom arsenal, no matter your sexuality,” a Glamour toy tester says. “It’s soft to the touch and just the right size and shape for people of any experience level. It might look big, but it’s designed to be the perfect size to tease the prostate.” We recommend using it to warm up for anal sex or using it on its own to make oral sex or mutual masturbation more pleasurable.

• Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 6 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Remote control, two motors, great battery; waterproof
• Cons: Expensive
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? Yes
• App compatibility? Yes
• Area of stimulation: Prostate

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Adventurous couples already know that finger vibrators make fingering (and any kind of manual play) way more fun—and this is especially worthwhile. Because they feel like a natural extension of your finger, these vibes are easy to use from head to toe in really tantalizing ways. “What’s great about this vibe isn’t just the 20 vibration settings, but the comfort,” says Chatel. “Finger vibrators that are designed like mini silicone socks don’t feel very comfy and things can get sweaty in that little hole after a lot of play. But this design makes sure the wearer can avoid all that.” Put a couple drops of water-based lube on the tip of this vibe, and you’re good to go.

• Material: Body-safe silicone/ Modes: 20 vibration settings / Battery: 100-minute rechargeable battery
• Pros: Powerful vibrations, discreet, travel lock
• Cons: Some felt there were actually too many settings
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit, G-spot, penis, nipples, perineum

This small yet mighty vibe is a less obvious couples sex toy, but it’s no less worthwhile than any other option. “It’s a great addition to penetrative play,” Corrado says. “You can put it between your bodies during missionary, hold it against a clitoris during doggy style, and basically make it work in any position. It’s a pretty versatile toy too—you can use the slight curve of it to tease along the ridge of the penis as well.” At just four inches long, it’s also easy to stash in a nightstand or carry-on without arousing suspicion.

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 8 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Waterproof design, travel lock, versatile shape
• Cons: Might be too small.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? Yes
• App compatibility? Yes
• Area of stimulation: Clit, G-spot, perineum

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Before you shell out on sex furniture, you can test the waters—and explore your kinks and fetishes—with this easy-to-use restraint system, which leaves one partner immobilized. “The cuffs are soft, making them safe to use on sensitive wrists and ankles, but they’re still plenty strong,” Corrado says. And there’s no need to worry about prying eyes: “When it’s not in use, just tuck the cuffs underneath your mattress.” If you’re more advanced in the art of BDSM, you might want to invest in a more serious sex sling or swing instead.

• Material: Nylon, plastic, nickel-free metal / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A
• Pros: Adjustable; comfortable restraints; no installation required
• Cons: Not for experts
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: N/A

When it comes to couples sex toys, you can never go wrong with a panty vibrator. “Panty vibrators are an easy way to spice up date night at home or out on the town,” says Chatel. “Just slip the vibrator into your undies and hand the remote control or app over to your partner, and let the games begin. Moxie, in particular, is my favorite in this style because the fit is perfect, whereas other toys can be bulky and feel like you have a load in your pants.” With its 10 rumbly vibrations that are whisper quiet and the super easy-to-use We-Vibe app, Moxie is a great addition to every sex toy collection.

• Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Magnet attachment for extra security, 2-year warranty
• Cons: Some felt it could be stronger
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? Yes
• App compatibility? Yes
• Area of stimulation: Clit

Still relatively new to the market, the Magic Wand Micro has become “my new favorite couples vibrator,” says Chatel. “I love using wands when I’m with a partner, but sometimes they’re just too big and heavy and it can feel like we’re having a threesome when I’m not in the mood for a threesome. Micro is just as powerful as other wands, but without the size and weight, making it perfect for partnered play.” Micro is so small that it will happily be at home on your key chain too…if you're into that.

• Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 7 vibration settings / Battery: 3-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Powerful vibrations, travel-ready
• Cons: Some felt it’s pricey for the size.
• Waterproof? No
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit, vulva, perineum

Although marketed to be something that’s used during solo play, male masturbators are a lot of fun, as either part of foreplay or as the star of the show. Arcwave Voy, unlike some male masturbators, allows for tightness adjustability which is fantastic for those who like it rough. “You can customize it for just the right ‘grip’ you’d like to feel,” research fellow at the Kinsey Institute Justin Lehmiller, PhD, tells Glamour about this “unique” toy. With its eight tightness settings, there’s something for every penis. Just don’t forget the water-based lube.

• Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A
• Pros: Feels like the real deal; 8 tightness settings.
• Cons: Some felt it’s pricey.
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Penis

What do you get when you put two or more vulvas in the same room? Magic. And the best way to celebrate such a coming-together of greatness is by stimulating not just the vulva, but every inch of both partners. “Fin isn’t just a perfect finger vibrator, but it’s great for lesbians and all their erogenous zones,” says Chatel. “Whether it’s the clit, nipples, earlobes, or that super sensitive part of the lower back, this vibrator won’t quit until everyone has climaxed multiple times.”

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 3 vibration settings / Battery: 1.5-hour rechargeable battery
• Pros: Extra powerful vibrations, versatile
• Cons: Some wished it had a longer charge
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: Clit, vulva, nipples, perineum—everywhere!

Sometimes the best sex toys are the ones that force us out of our comfort zone, and these cuffs do just that. Unlike some BDSM accessories that can be a little aggressive in design, these cuffs are made of soft baby blue silicone—definitely a selling point for newbies. “These cuffs are a great introduction for couples who are just dipping their toe into bondage play,” says Chatel. “Some metal-based restraints can get uncomfortable after prolonged play, but that’s not going to be an issue here.” When you’re ready, you can add a blindfold to your bondage practices to take things up a notch. Sensory deprivation is an easy way to enhance sensations.

• Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A
• Pros: Soft, easy to clean, beginner-friendly
• Cons: Some felt they could be sexier
• Waterproof? Yes
• Wireless? N/A
• App compatibility? No
• Area of stimulation: N/A